How would my life will be different if I have ten children?

Having a lot of children may be everyone's dream. Whenever you come back from your workplace, there's someone at home waiting for you and say,

'Mummy! I miss you...'

or

'Mummy, please buy me an ice-cream!'

Well, I found that children are the cutest person all around the globe. Just look at how they behave, smile, laugh, fall and stand up again, it was adorable. My life was about to change dramatically when I have ten children. Hahahaa it's a lot of number but yeah I know that I will be a good mother. Hm maybe the............cutest good mother! :)

People who do not have kids may think that having ten children is a nightmare. Trust me. They bet they have to handle every dried pudding on their jeans and struggled so hard to have the kids taking their medicines but hey! It's not that bad. By the way, before I have any kids, I already got an 'expert declarations' on raising children from my mum. In whatever events had been held, I would be the one keeping an eye on kids hahahaa. 

I agree with the fact that doing the simple things to your children are.....good enough. Children will not remember you for the fortunes you provided but for the feeling that you cherished them. Those who live simply, sleep soundly. For now, I already plan something to work out with my kids one fine day.

I will be a decisive mother but full of love. What I mean by decisive? My kids will never throw tantrums in public or the other word is 'behave'. Seeing other toddler raised their voices to their mother in public just broke my heart into million pieces. How can they become so rude? I will teach them how to be respectful person, not only to me but also to the eldest.

I will give my children nutritious food so they can grow up well. Well, of course I know that the green vegetables have been declared to be the first real enemy to them. To overcome this problem, I have my own way to make they eat all of that. It may takes some time to make such a cute meal box for every single of them but I know that it will be worth it.

I will make myself approachable. I will try my best to always be understanding and a good listener. So they know that they can go to their mom for friendship advice, homework help or just a simple hug. Not having someone to talk to can cause them to retire into a shell, so I will make sure that I talk to them about how they feel regularly.

 I will never compared them to the others. Everyone has their own passion and I'm aware of that. So does my kids. They have what they like and dislike. I will just accept them for what they are and give them some good advises to pursue their dreams as long as they're not crossing the human boundaries.

I will come to their bedroom at night. During my childhood, my mum always come into my bedroom to tuck me in and sing me a song before I sleep. She will read me a good story or she will just gave me some advises. I would love to do the same  thing to my own kids.

I will let them have some freedom. They need to learn how to live and work out problems on their own. This will give them confidence and allow them to become independent, successful adults.

I will let them play outside a lot. There's so many lessons they can get from outdoor activities. For example, when they fall and bleed from running too fast, they will learn how to stand up again and be more careful next time.

I will leave them my love notes every day. It would be my own kind of way in expressing my love for my kids. It's not mean that I will write them a letter full of my handwriting, but I will simply write 'Rise & shine my dear. You know I love you right?' or maybe I will write 'Take care kids. There are billions of cell in your body and all they care about is you, just like me.' and place it in their notebooks.

I will stick to 'what they give, then it is what they will get back'. They can't always get what they're ask me for, Life need struggle. Sometimes, they must give me something to get something. If they want a brand new hand phone, then they have to get a result with flying colors first in the examination! 

I will bring them to travel every year. I would always love to travel. It's not a bad idea to bring them along with me travelling across different countries. Besides, it can help them to understand how's the other cultures work and live. 

Money doesn't equal to love. I don't need to spoil my kids to be a good mother. If wealth is the secret to happiness, then the rich should be dancing on the streets. But only poor kids do that. Instead, I will spend valuable time with them whenever I had a chance to do so, It's important for me to bond because they will grow up fast. Love isn't a possession, it's an appreciation. I will love them unconditionally.....