Making judgement

She's emo?
you'd be cut to if you have gone through what she has.

She's Anorexic?
you'd be too if you were called fat everyday.

She's loud?

she's invisible at home and wants to be heard.

She's ugly?

tell me, what's the definition of beauty?

You don't know their story?

then, stop judged like you know all their stories!
 

Do you know how it feels to be judged? I do. Yes, I'm covered up. No, I'm not closed minded! Yes, I'm Muslim. No, I'm not a terrorist. Before you judged them based on their appearance, you better get to know them first before you starts making any assumptions. Just because others have labelled them unpopular, nerdy, unsocial, bipolar and dorky, that does not mean it's all true.

Judging a person does not define who they are, it defines who you are. Most people don't take time to understand others and usually rely on what they hear from rumors or what their eyes let them see. The rumors are carried by others, spread by fools and only idiots accept it. I really don't care if you're black, white, tall, short, skinny, fat, rich or poor, if you're nice to me, I'll be nice to you too. As simple as that.


 

 

Everyone has their own styles, tastes and opinions. Some people choose to wear clothing that is 'in style' and 'most-like' while others choose to wear clothing that suits their own personal taste even it's not really up to date. Why bother to dress up not in our liking just to impress others? When I see a person who drives a nice car, wears fancy clothes and styled up their hairs, I often think of them as being rich. But that might not always be the case.

 

Everyone has different likes and dislikes. Some people like chocolate, some like vanilla. It is okay to hate them if they like vanilla and you don't? No. Some people like rap music, while others like country. Are you better than them  because you like rap and they don't? No. Just because people like different things than another person does not mean they should be treated differently from one another.

If a friend of mine likes Park Seo Joon, I am not going to stop being friend with her just because we're having a same crush. There are so much more important things in this world rather than fighting about crush, the ones that would never notice you!

 

Just because I laugh a lot, doesn’t mean my life is all about rainbows and candies. Just because I have a smile on my face everyday, doesn’t mean that there’s nothing bothering me. You never truly know what goes on in someone else’s life until you learn who the person truly is. People should be judged by the things that honestly matter like what kind of person they are and how they treat others.

 

We are all human beings and should be given fair chances to have people learn who we truly are. There will always be people who judge you, but if they don't want to see who the real you is, that's their loss. Before you judge others, you better go and love yourself first.